Bachelor # 1....not seeming like a fore-runner

     I have a date. Yes I do! When is it going to take place, I have no bloody clue. One of the guys I am talking to on-line which has now advanced to brief phone conversations and I have set up a date. We will call this dude Bachelor # 1 (to protect his identity, and to keep my ass from being sued.) He seems a bit eager, what with sending me 2 e-mails in a matter of 5 minutes which included his phone number...but that's ok. Because may he's nervous. So anyway Bachelor # 1 and I share a phone call today which according to my cell log, lasted 17 minutes and consisted mainly of his talking a-mile-a-minute.

Here are some of the things that kind of raised a red flag to me...and let me know if you think I'm making more of it than I should:

• He talked about a woman whom he was supposed to meet with, and she blew him off. He then proceeded to say some rude-ish comments about her.
• He complained about all these women on the dating site who had kids. He doesn't need to be on a date with someone whose kid keeps calling.
• Kept mentioning my looks...and about a woman dressing 'nice.'

     Bachelor # 1 and I wound up setting a date to meet for coffee on Wednesday night around 7:30-8:00. I'm not sure if this is a good match, but what the heck. It's a good date to get back in the game. But then I start getting texts from him. He wanted to move our coffee date from Wednesday to tonight, because 'he has plans' for Wednesday. Meanwhile I had already told him tonight and Friday night were both not good for me....when we were on the phone. So then he was pushing for Friday night, and I figured I could make that work. But then when I was out he text's me AGAIN...asking to move the date to Saturday, which I have plans that night (but hadn't told him.)

       Being the courteous person I am...and really trying to give this guy a chance,when he asked to meet for Saturday told him that was fine. However I asked to meet at 12, noon as I have to be in Levitttown later in the day. Needless to say my response from him was "We'll work it out," but somehow I feel like this isn't going to be worked out and is turning in to a chore of even meeting.